Welcome to KinkyCoach!

When’s the last time you had great sex? You know the kind of sex I’m talking about: time slows down; the slightest touch sends out shivers of pleasure; your partner knows what to do before you even ask; and you think to yourself “this is the most fun I’ve had in a very long time.”

Unfortunately many men are stuck in a sexual rut…searching for more intimate connections, fulfilling sexual experiences, and, dare I say it, FUN when we get frisky. Hiring a coach is your opportunity to clarify and expand your own sexual experiences. An outside point of view can free you to do things differently, explore new ways of expressing yourself or dump old patterns that just aren’t useful anymore.

Erotic coaching is being mindful of your desires and working intentionally to get what you want in your play. While the specifics of this are different from person to person, the outcome is the same. You are more aware of yourself as a sexual being and more connected to those who share your erotic space.

Fetish Coaching is about exploring the edgier side of your desire and fetish play.  It’s the opportunity to experience the exhilaration of power exchange, intense stimulation of the senses, and surrendering to your own desire.

There are many ways we can connect with our inner desire and an erotic coach can help you sort through all of the choices until you find the ones that resonate with you.  Working together we can explore how you want to express yourself sexually, dabble in those kinky activities you’re curious about, create more intimacy and connection in your life, and turn off the sexual autopilot that ruins it for most of us.

Click on the links under Services to learn more about Kink Coaching and Erotic Coaching.

Recent Blog Posts

  • Saying “YES” to sex…

    Posted by Paul on February 28, 2012

    I had one of those WTF moments yesterday.  Life has been busy lately….more chaotic than normal.  (What’s normal?)  I had a fisting session set up with a regular buddy of mine. It was strictly for me; an opportunity to indulge … Read More

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  • Remembering the Names….

    Posted by Paul on February 13, 2012

      A large display of the quilt opened yesterday in the Castro.  I met DAD and his husband who were there to read names and we had some time to reflect upon all of the lives that AIDS has touched. … Read More

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  • This is just a test….

    Posted by Paul on February 8, 2012

    Just testing my feeds…please stand by.

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  • Drawing on Desire

    Posted by Paul on January 30, 2012

    I let it all hang out this week.  Literally.  My DAD and I were models for a kinky drawing class called “Hot Draw.”  While I have modeled for other artists before, I found myself getting anxious as the time drew … Read More

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