Are you curious about exploring the dynamics of power exchange within the context of BDSM? Join us as we explore what it means to hold power, to surrender it, and how these dynamics can be a path to greater trust and vulnerability. This 2.5-day workshop is open to cis-men who are ready to explore their…
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CBE for Couples
Reignite the Passion in Your Relationship! Are things getting stale and boring in the bedroom? It’s time to spice things up! Join us at “Celebrating the Body Erotic for Couples“. Whether you’re new in your relationship or long-term partners, this workshop is designed for couples who desire more abundance and excitement in their erotic lives.…
Power, Surrender, and Intimacy in Chicago!
The Body Electric School presents PSI in Chicago March 24-26 2023 PSI is an exciting workshop that explores the concepts and skills of BDSM within the safe container of a Body Electric event. You will have the opportunity to: – Explore your body’s capacity for elevated levels of sensation – Refine your skills for creating…
6 Tips for Anal Explorers
One of the questions I get frequently is how to enjoy anal sex. Most of us have had a bad experience with butt sex…especially starting out. You’re thinking about it right now, aren’t you? Here are some tips to ease you into ass play if you’re starting out. If you’re more experienced, you might run…
The Reality of Kink and Porn
I was a part of a wonderful discussion last night for The Leatherman’s Discussion Group. It was fun walking down memory lane with Dirk Caber. Click to watch the Video.
Cleaning out for Butt Play
Lube 101
Lube 101 I was walking through the store today and was amazed to see an entire wall dedicated to personal lubricants. Granted, I was in a sex shop in the heart of the Castro. There were so many choices: silicone, flavored, scented, water, jo, anal, organic, for couples, warming, cooling, gel, creme, paste, hybrid, super…
What’s So Great About Kinky Sex?
I was talking to someone the other day and he asked why kinky things like whips, ball stretchers, and hairy Daddies are so interesting when I’m having sex. I’ve heard many general theories about kinkster headspace, but I’ve never thought about my own. Here are several elements that make kinky play so satisfying to me on…
KinkyCoach 2.0
Welcome to KinkyCoach 2.0! It’s hard to believe the original site went live over two years ago. I’m grateful for the challenges and opportunities that have come my way since then. I’ve taught a number of workshops. I’ve expanded my skills as a bodyworker, taken classes in Sacred Intimacy and Tantra, and sharpened my fetish skills. I continue to…
bulldog
Daddy Richard gave me the nickname “bulldog” a number of years ago. He said I reminded him of one: solid, loyal, and headstrong. This summer during Sacred Intimate Training at Easton Mountain, I chose to embrace my namesake and celebrate its power. The name really does describe my build and personality. I’m tenacious once I…