Coach

Welcome to KinkyCoach 2.0!

It’s hard to believe the original site went live over two years ago. I’m grateful for the challenges and opportunities that have come my way since then.  I’ve taught a number of workshops.  I’ve expanded my skills as a bodyworker, taken classes in Sacred Intimacy and Tantra, and sharpened my fetish skills. I continue to be amazed by the passion, generosity, and eagerness of my clients. I’ve also begun to narrow down the focus of my work.  The redesign of the site is a reflection of my growth.

I talk about how my approach to sensual massage is very different from other massages you might have experienced.  I combined Fetish Coaching and Mentoring into a Coaching page which highlights my expertise with anal pleasure, deep embodiment, and fetish play.  I’ve updated the comments about clients’ experiences.  Finally, I’ve incorporated all of the educational material (previously called articles) into tagged blog posts.

I hope you like it. The new site is more responsive to the myriad of phones, tables, and traditional computing. Likewise, I continue to push myself to be even more committed to men who walk through my door.

Daddy Richard gave me the nickname “bulldog” a number of years ago.  He said I reminded him of one: solid, loyal, and headstrong. This summer during Sacred Intimate Training at Easton Mountain, I chose to embrace my namesake and celebrate its power. The name really does describe my build and personality.

I’m tenacious once I have committed to something.  Most of the time, that’s a good thing.  I follow through on promises, stick to my beliefs and see projects to completion. Once in a while, I’m a little too committed and I don’t adopt different perspectives or habits as quickly as I might.  I guess that’s where Daddy Richard got the headstrong part.

I’m protective of the people around me. I strive to create safe spaces where they are able explore unfamiliar territory, heal from wounds, or play unabashedly. Each knows I have their back.

Bulldog is also a good metaphor of my erotic expression.  When I’m fully engaged sexually, I’m grunting and growling.  I vocalize the primal energy that lives deep in my body.  Sometimes it’s playful.  Other times it can be fierce.

I followed through this week on my commitment and got my bulldog tattoo.  Like me, it’s playful and fierce.  Loyal and passionate. It serves as a touchstone reminding me of my power and the various ways I express it in my life.